Friday, 15 June 2018

GROWING UP WITH STEP-PARENTS (letter to Dom Post, June 16)




“What drives people using P?” asks Harry Tam, who works with hard-to-reach Maori (Plan to cash in on our gangs, June 15), and says, "it's poverty”.
 
Isn’t it time we asked what drives poverty? Material poverty is worst in single parent families - 28% of all families with dependent children. And then there’s emotional poverty, shown by more than 90% of our ballooning prison population having a lifetime diagnosis of a substance use or mental disorder.
 
Growing up with a step-parent (or serial step-parents) is the biggest predicator for future imprisonment. Because solo parents have such a horrible row to hoe we tip-toe around them, blaming housing costs, low wages, unemployment and insufficient benefits – anything but their solo state. 

But to reduce physical and emotional poverty, we need government policies supporting the best insurance for our children’s future. More than anything else children need two parents, committed to them and to each other in marriage.  
 
It seems that for children, going without a father equates with going without their daily bread.

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